Wednesday, 28 September 2016

7 Ways To Deal with The Loss Of Your Pet

Choosing to get a pet is one of the best things you could ever do in life. Doing so will bring you joy, happiness, and comfort every day of your life. Unfortunately, pets do not live forever even though your memories of them will. They will die one day perhaps out of sickness, old age, or injury. You can only hope that they do not suffer as they do. You can also be with them during their final moments if possible. It is important to note that getting over the death of a pet is not easy. In some cases, doing so seems impossible. You can overcome this grief and sorrow by following a few simple tips. These tips helped other pet owners to get over the loss of their pet and they can help you as well. 

1. Develop a Routine and Maintain It
A regular schedule is important during your time of hardship. You should not spend your time thinking about your dead pet instead of trying to regain a semblance of normal life. You should do your household chores as you normally did when your pet was still alive. You should go to school or work without being late or missing anything important. You should also cook and eat as though nothing happened. Maintaining this kind of routine is important because it helps you to keep your mind off your dead pet. Instead, you will be thinking about what you need to do today and on the following day. Soon, you will realize that you have overcome your loss by simply focusing on something else. Remember, the world never stops and neither should you.

2. Saying Goodbye is Important
Humans have a craving for closure after an intense emotional experience. You may be experiencing the same thing after the death of your pet especially when you were not there when it died. Saying goodbye can help you find closure to this chapter in your life. Doing so helps you to recognize your feelings, appreciate them, and then let them do. Saying goodbye is also important for the rest of your family members who felt saddened by the tragedy that befell your pet. The best way of saying goodbye is through a small farewell ceremony in your compound or at the pet crematorium. Those who feel they should speak at this ceremony should do so and they will find peace.

3. Comforting Each Other Is Critical
Grief is a deeply personal experience that touches your heart and soul. It is also a shared experience recognized and felt by others. You should identify anyone who grieves with you and your family. Take some time and talk about what you are going through during this trying time. Share stories of your experiences with you dead pet and the joys it brought to your lives. Speak to each other about the importance of moving on, as life is a continuous and never-ending process. Children are especially in need of your help and guidance at this time. By helping them overcome their grief, you will also overcome yours. Remember, strength comes from helping others so make sure you comfort those affected by the tragic loss of your pet.

4. Memories Will Help You Cope
Sometimes, people lose some of the best things in your life e.g. their homes, loved ones, or careers. Coping with such loss can be devastating, but doing so will not destroy you. All you have to do is to cling on to the good times and everything will be okay. It will be as if nothing ever changed. The same goes for losing a pet. The memories of the good times will keep you going for a long time. These memories exist in your head as well as in photos and videos of your pet. Always preserve these photos so that you can show them to your children or grandchildren. The thought of sharing such moments of happiness with others is what helps people to forget their sorrows.

5. Take Care of Your Current Pets
Pet lovers normally have more than one pet even if they are not of the same species. For example, you might have a dog and a cat, a turtle and a goldfish, or a hamster and a parrot. You should not neglect one pet because another one died. Instead, you should look after it so that it does not die. More importantly, you should look after your surviving pet so that it takes your mind off your dead pet. The time you spend with it will remind you of the joy that comes with having a pet. You will also cherish it more than you ever did because you do not want to lose it.

6. Support Groups Are a Great Idea
You or your child may have questions about your pet’s death. For instance, how did it die and why? How can you prevent similar deaths in your current pets or in new ones? These questions may require the help of experts because of their intricate nature. Many people may have undergone what you went through so it is important to seek them. You can do that by finding a support group for people who have lost pets. This group will give you all the answers you need. It will also help you to deal with any stress or trauma you may be experiencing. More importantly, the people in a support group understand your loss more than any other person does. That means you can be free and open-minded when talking to them.

7. Get a New Pet
You may have one pet only in your home and as such, you will have none if that one dies. Coping with such circumstances is difficult because you will feel as though there is a vacuum in your home. You can eliminate this vacuum by simply getting another pet. You can get a pet that is similar to the one that died or you can go for a different species. This new pet will breathe a ray of sunshine into your life. You will feel as though little or nothing at all changed.